the pros & cons of cherise

Pro
- genuinely good person
- beautiful smile
- athletic, in shape
- likes to travel
- gives me easy access to West Coast
- multicultural, open to other cultures
- fun to be with
- college-educated
- comes from a good family
- my family and friends like her
- wants to have a family, i.e. children

Con
- doesn't show interest, substantively, in my career
- doesn't really like to read
- doesn't seem to show an active interest in my interests, thoughts, & beliefs
- we don't seem to communicate effectively with each other, especially to resolve disagreements
- may not be willing to settle in Philly
- doesn't seem to have any plan for employment after dancing
- is not, at the least, financially self-sufficient
- messy and disorganized, possibly sometimes affecting her responsibilities
- her free time has not coincided with my free time, so we have little quality time together